If you’re going out looking for friends, you’ll find they are very scarce. If you go out to be a friend, you will find they are everywhere.

Awesome quote I came across the other day. Go out looking to help, not for it and I think you might find much joy!  Sometimes I feel this way having moved to a new location (State) and entered a new way of life coming from 12 years of Active Service as an Army Officer.  Since I have been working with and for Veterans like myself as the Program Manager for a great organization with sincere leadership, I have found so much joy and, in turn, made many sincere friends. 

Just a thought that may be pertinent to you too!  Look to help others and, in turn, this may help yourself!